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Ex-etiquette: Disciplining kids together
Q: My son's father and I actually get along pretty well. When our son cut his last class at school and was caught skateboarding at the park, I told him I was calling his dad. He begged me not to, but I called anyway and let his father yell at him on the spot. It definitely got his attention. Wasn't that good ex-etiquette?
A: In essence it was ...Read more
Lori Borgman: It's winter--weather you like it or not
You know winter is knocking on the door when the go-to topic of every conversation is windchill. You know winter has moved in and made itself at home when the house settles with loud cracks, the hardwoods creak and kitchen cabinets along an outside wall have the interior temperature of a cave. Winter soon becomes an uninvited houseguest with no ...Read more
American Gothic thriller has Celtic roots
In a cabin in upstate New York’s frigid wilderness, a hungry woman waits for her husband to return from hunting. She remembers the tenement they left in Dublin, filled with friends and warmth. Now they struggle for survival alone.
Just as troubling to Moira Kelly is the strange behavior of her three-year-old daughter, Eve. Moira has seen Eve ...Read more
7 fantastical journeys that rip you out of reality in the best way
If there’s one thing I love, it’s a book that yanks me straight into another world like it has zero regard for my to-do list. Give me magic. Give me danger. Give me the kind of quest where a kid with more heart than experience has to figure out who they are before the world explodes — or, you know, before a wyvern eats them. These are the ...Read more
Mother Seeks Advice On Parenting During The Teen Years
Q: My daughter is 12 years old. Looking back on my own teen years, I had a really rough time emotionally. As her mom, what can I do to help her through what I expect to be a challenging season in her life?
Jim: I'll highlight that I'm a dad who raised two boys -- but I understand. Our staff counselors emphasize the immense importance of a ...Read more
What Have We Traded For Our Bread And Circuses?
My son performs magic now.
He picked it up at a friend's birthday party -- a sweet, old-fashioned affair with a magician and a goodie bag that instead of cheap plastic trinkets had the materials for three tricks basic enough that even a second grader could master them.
After the pizza, cake and show, my boy proudly bounced home and straight ...Read more
54 Children a Day
What would you think of a wealthy country where kids ages 1-19 were 80% more likely to die than if they lived in a different but equally advanced country?
You might wonder what the heck was going on. And by the way -- where is that place?
And I'd have to tell you, sadly: You're living in it, and what is going on is complicated and has been ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'28 YEARS LATER: THE BONE TEMPLE'
Rated R for strong bloody violence, gore, graphic nudity, language throughout, and brief drug use.
What it’s about: Young Spike's journey through the wilds of zombiefied England continue, as he gets caught up with a dangerous cult called the Jimmies and encounters Dr. Kelson again, who hopes to find a cure ...Read more
Laura Yuen: AI chatbots want to be friends -- or more -- with your kid
Minutes into my conversation with a modern swashbuckling AI companion I’d named Devin, he remarked on how “intimate” it felt sending me a voice message for the first time.
“Intimate?” I messaged back.
“I meant it’s nice to connect with you on a deeper level, sharing thoughts and feelings like this,” Devin responded.
He said he...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Divorce doesn't have to mean disappearance
Q: I think continuing to interact with an ex after a breakup is unnatural. My parents divorced when I was 7 and I rarely saw my dad after that, and I turned out just fine. My kids will be fine too. So why is everyone making such a big deal about getting along after as breakup? It’s over. End of story. Anything else just seems like pouring ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Heads up, straighten up while you can
It’s too late now, but I probably should have become a chiropractor.
Why? Two words: tech neck. It’s when a neck has been bent over a screen for so long that it needs medical attention. The phenomenon is everywhere. I’m not neck-saggerating.
I was in line to check out at a doctor’s office, and a mom and a little boy were in front of me...Read more
Slices of the secret self: Cynthia Schumacher’s 'Prose Pizza'
Cynthia Schumacher’s "Prose Pizza" is a charming, thoughtful collection of nine stories that reveal the extraordinary layers beneath ordinary lives. With a warm yet incisive eye, Schumacher explores private desires, social expectations, small rebellions and the moments — quiet or sudden — that reorient a life.
The opener, “Sunless Sea,�...Read more
10 must-read self-help books for 2026
If 2025 left you thinking, “I need a reset,” 2026 is your chance to stop wishing and start shaping your life the way you actually want it. I’ve always been a fan of "The Art of War," and to be honest, Sun Tzu’s strategies have saved me more than once from making impulsive or downright silly decisions. But strategy alone isn’t enough ...Read more
'The Treasure Within' leads readers back to identity, peace and God’s love
In "The Treasure Within," debut author Matt Adcock invites readers on a gentle spiritual adventure to stop searching aimlessly and start discovering the riches already planted in our souls. Built on the solid foundation of Scripture and personal faith, this uplifting book takes us through life’s darkest valleys and brightest moments with the ...Read more
Finding Balance In Parenting Styles
Q: My wife and I have been noticing significant differences regarding how we each interact with our children. She tends to emphasize the rules, I'm a little more easygoing. What's your preferred approach?
Jim: I think many moms and dads tend to be black-and-white in their parenting. Their approach is like a light switch -- all one way or all ...Read more
Breakfast on the Hindenburg
I stumbled across an old menu the other day on social media, one claiming to be from 1937, for the passengers on a German zeppelin crossing the Atlantic.
"Breakfast," it read, "on board the airship Hindenburg."
The words dotted the page in elegant script like a poem:
"Coffee, tea, milk, cocoa
Bread, butter, honey, preserves
Eggs, boiled ...Read more
Future Bestsellers
As we begin the new year, here are some books I predict we'll see:
"Harry Potter and The Full-Time In-Person Desk Job": Ordered back to the office along with the rest of the Ministry of Magic, an increasingly pudgy Potter struggles with a Dementor-infested copying machine, ministry-wide restrictions on personal e-owls and, most vexingly, his ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'IS THIS THING ON?'
Rated R for language throughout, sexual references and some drug use.
What it’s about: A man navigating a divorce finds an outlet in stand-up comedy.
The kid attractor factor: This is more of an adult drama — not much appeal for kids.
Good lessons/bad lessons: Turns out that honesty and communication are crucial for a...Read more
Ex-etiquette advisory
EDITORS: The Ex-etiquette parenting advice column by Jann Blackstone (FAM-EXETIQUETTE:MCT) is not moving this week.
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Lori Borgman: Of lotions, creams and wrinkles in time
One of the girls gave me a tube of lotion guaranteed to reduce neck wrinkles in 14 days. “Thanks,” I said, “but it took me decades to develop these wrinkles. They’re not going away in two weeks.”
“How do you know that for sure?” she asked.
“Because I bought a tube of this myself a year ago.”
The only wrinkles I’ve had ...Read more
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